We should never forget that the attributes of a relationship ... say all about its real meaning ... by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
We should never forget that the attributes of a relationship ... say all about its real meaning ... by the well known romanian author Adrian Dumitru
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Being happy together it's maybe the first purpose what we have in mind while we decide to be with someone.
But somehow .... by the passing of time ... we just forget that.
And ... instead of being happy ... we end up ... living scenarios which never have anything to do with .... joy.
So why this nonsense?!
Why we chase for happiness ... but end up living in unhappiness?!
Are we somehow suffering of .... amnesia?!
How the hell can we forget that the real reason why we've decided to be together was actually related with the desire of feeling special .... and also dominated by great vibes?!
Yes ... how can we be and act so, so silly?!
Today ... i personally keep in mind all the attributes of a relationship ... but also the ones from the scene of a real life.
I pay attention if i make ... or lose money.
... if i have problems ... or even ... lots of problems ... or all runs perfectly.
I try to read the energies of the people that surrounds me...and realise if i am living near good or ugly souls.
In fact ... i simple analyse all the details.
I look at my life as a painting ... split in 2 ... one representing the relationship and another one ... my real life.
And ... indeed ... for many ... we see them being happy in relationship ... but also happy with the other aspects of their lives.
Others ... by contrary ... being unhappy near their partners ... and also unhappy while being on the stage of the real life.
But .... more weird ... and I consider it a nonsense while being in a relationship seen as a beautiful one is to be happy in relationship ... but unhappy in the real life.
The question ... which comes into my mind is ... why the relationship is not really having a nice impact on all the other attributes of life?!
Why if we are into a beautiful connection ... why in real life ... we can't be happy also ... or even worst ... be in fact annoyed, angry, frustrated .... ?!
Today ... even if i saw such a scenario as illogical ... I understand that maybe what we see as a beautiful connection ... is just ... a fake one.
Or even in total contradiction of all we had in mind ... about the energies which are beyond ... the couple.
I continue trying to understand better life in general ... relationships between a man and a woman ... but also my
own life ... and my love relationships.
I realise today ... looking into my past ... that i was balancing living contradictory scenarios ... not really being ... many, many times ... near the right person.
I can only smile .... making my final conclusions.
I look again at my own life ... analysing all my love stories ... trying to understand deeply those connections.
But ... it was all a mix of beautiful and ugly vibes ... both in relationships ... and in real life.
I actually lived ... an emotional balance ... but i was not able at that time to analyse and understand all the details about the energies of those connections.
I thought .... as many others that all was just a coincidence.
... but it was not.
I've entered into connection .... I was playing good my role ... my past partners also ... but not on long term.
I didn't know ... or maybe i didn't care to do that.
I believed it was useless ... and all those partners from my past ... believed the same.
So ... all came against me.
I was always in a relationship ... balancing between experiencing good and bad vibes.
Also ... the other aspects of my life were meanwhile balancing ... looking good or bad ... and i was pretending I didn't realised what is going on.
Unfortunately ... all was related with the fact that I did not kept my intentions of being that best version of myself ... which i've showed all the time into the beginning.
The paid price ... was huge.
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